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Empowered Mindset
An empowered mindset is owning our power to choose what we think and believe.
That choice is transformational.
What is an empowered mindset?
An empowered mindset begins with understanding that much of what we believe about ourselves and the world is conditioned—shaped by cultural messages, generational patterns, and past experiences. These beliefs filter how we see, feel, and show up in life. But here’s the power: we can choose differently. An empowered mindset means consciously rewriting those inherited stories, choosing thoughts and beliefs that uplift and align with our truth. This shift transforms our self-concept, strengthens our self-worth, and expands our courage to live bolder, more joyful, and deeply authentic lives.
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Let Yourself Break: Understanding Trauma Healing
Healing isn't all candles and crying. It's about breaking down the walls that separate us from ourselves. It requires cracking.
Suzanne C. Carver
Jan 10
Rethinking the Comfort Zone
Humans are funny creatures. We equally crave novelty and fear the unknown. We get bored easily but don’t like change. We are designed to exp
Suzanne C. Carver
Dec 6, 2024
Why I Fired Myself From Trying to Save the World
I've always fought for liberation. But what if I've had it backwards? What if liberation isn't about opposing but about opening?
Suzanne C. Carver
Nov 15, 2024
Find Connection: Create Unity in a Hurting World
Humans are built for connection; we cannot sustain this division without serious consequences.
Suzanne C. Carver
Nov 1, 2024
You Belong at the Center of Your Life: How to Prioritize Yourself in a Busy World
I often wonder if what we call depression is the perfectly reasonable feeling we have when we move around life without ourselves.
Suzanne C. Carver
Oct 4, 2024
Female Rivalry: Why Women Compete With Each Other and How To Stop
What starts in elementary school with cliques and mean girls smoothly morphs into the sophisticated adult savvy of dominance and exclusion.
Suzanne C. Carver
Sep 6, 2024
Love Your Age: Overcoming the Socialized Pressure to Look Young
Women feel unattractive, unworthy or irrelevant when we cannot hold onto something that, by definition and design, is impermanent.
Suzanne C. Carver
Aug 8, 2024
Fun Ways to Combat Negative Self-Talk
So you want me to stop doing what makes me happy and start doing what makes you happy? What a stupid idea.
Suzanne C. Carver
Jun 20, 2024
How to Confront and Overcome the Fear of Death: A Guide to Finding Peace and Acceptance
Death fear is the foundational fear from which all my other fears sprout. It’s the mothership where all my fears are born.
Suzanne C. Carver
May 30, 2024
26 Beliefs You Think Are Yours but Are Really Cultural Conditioning
It’s a process of making the unconscious conscious. We make our conditioning external so we can examine and question it.
Suzanne C. Carver
Apr 18, 2024
Mind Liberation. It's All About Deconditioning.
It can be scary and lonely to abandon cultural or familial norms. But so is living severed from your true self. Â
Suzanne C. Carver
Mar 21, 2024
Five Easy Steps To Ruin Christmas
Here is my propriety formula for how to ruin Christmas.
Suzanne C. Carver
Dec 21, 2023
I Would be a Better Writer if I Was a Dog
I sit before my laptop, empty and uninspired. I summon ideas; they decline. The daily war of art ensues. My dog lies beside me in her...
Suzanne C. Carver
Nov 29, 2023
Why Parents Need to Let Their Kids Struggle (Just a Little)
Resiliency. We know it’s a good thing, something worth instilling in our kids. Sure. Though maybe not right now.
Suzanne C. Carver
Aug 15, 2023
It Was Just Supposed to be a Good Basketball Game
Imagine if white people put half the amount of energy into investigating our role in racism as we do in calling black people out.
Suzanne C. Carver
Apr 7, 2023
Ending White-Supremacy is up to White people. And it Starts Inside Ourselves.
To end white supremacy, we must reinvent our nation’s structure as well as the hearts and bodies of its citizens.
Suzanne C. Carver
Mar 1, 2022
Patriarchy: Your Factory-Installed Programming
Patriarchy has stolen our compasses and installed a false bearing.
Suzanne C. Carver
Jan 25, 2022
The Hunter and the Hiker
I like knowing that I get to choose how affected or unaffected I am by other people. That, to me, is true freedom.
Suzanne C. Carver
Nov 19, 2021
We Can't Turn Off the Dark
If you aren’t sure what white supremacy looks like, you can start by listening. Nothing shouts as loud as white supremacy
Suzanne C. Carver
Nov 4, 2021
Confused About Hair. I Mean Race. (And White Supremacy.)
Vlack people do not need me to tell them they are okay. It's me that needs that. And that is my whiteness at work.
Suzanne C. Carver
Oct 14, 2021
What if I Didn't Care What You Thought?
It can be hard to recognize where we are being held captive. We don’t always know how we are bound.
Suzanne C. Carver
Oct 12, 2021
How to Embrace and Make Peace with the Aging Process
I’m in the sea glass stage of my life - my rough edges worn smooth, but my colors still clear and vivid.
Suzanne C. Carver
Apr 6, 2021
The Bones of Us - The History of White Supremacy Missing From my Education.
To not see my whiteness means I cannot see my privilege, cannot access the truth of my role in society and so I cannot effect real change.
Suzanne C. Carver
Mar 2, 2021
I'm Surprisingly Good at Being Ignorant, and Other Lessons From the 2020 Election.
Perspective is hard to come by up there on my high horse, so dazzled am I by my own opinions, so blinded by my shiny righteousness.
Suzanne C. Carver
Nov 3, 2020
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